Praise. Praise for How We Love “How We Love has the capacity to change not only your marriage but every relationship that’s important in your life.”. How We Love has ratings and 99 reviews. In How We Love, relationship experts Milan and Kay Yerkovich draw on the powerful tool of attachment theory. How We Love. Milan and Kay Yerkovich explain why the ways you and your spouse relate to each other go back to before you even met. Drawing on the.

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There are numerous places in both the book and the workbook where the authors list characteristics of each attachment style or even statements that a person with that style would be likely to make. When people hurt me I write them off and end the relationship.

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I can see where the workbook will greatly enhance not just the unpacking of the different learning styles but also give insight and guidance on how to begin to be healthy and relate well. Longing for a marriage with less conflict and more intimacy? When a friend was describing its premise to me a few weeks ago I was intrigued. Jan 01, Cassandra rated it liked it. The book I purchased has a workbook included, and I found much of this to be very helpful as well.

How we love is basically a book that applies Attachment Theory to marriage relationships. Nov 20, Nash rated it it was amazing. It’s fairly easy reading, but packed with great insight. No trivia or quizzes yet. There are no discussion topics on this book yet. Feb 22, John Majors rated it it was amazing Shelves: But I have decided upon finishing the book that this reading of it was cursory at best and I ordered it, with the workbook included, through Amazon and will be going back through it giving it the time it deserves so I can learn.


Do you and your spouse fight about the same things again and again? I have hit or pushed my significant other or kids. The key to creating a deeper bond in your marriage may lie buried in your childhood. It is excellent in content with a basis on the science of attachment theory and Biblical Christian marriage.

How We Love: Discover Your Love Style, Enhance Your Marriage by Milan Yerkovich

LitFlash The eBooks you want at the lowest prices. Jul 27, Laura rated it it was amazing. Are you ready for a new journey of love? I have gained a lot of insight into my friends and relationships with them. Are you tired of falling into frustrating relational patterns in your marriage?

See all books by Milan YerkovichKay Yerkovich. Relationship Status This quiz uses different questions to suit your personal relationship status. No one protected me from harm growing up, so I had to toughen up and take care of myself.

Thankfully it is hod enough to move past some of the explanations and get to the meat. People with a secure love style are comfortable making emotional connections, and they have the ability to form close bonds with others in a way that feels natural.

Your ultimate goal is to become a secure connector. It is a defensive adaptation to a lack of sufficient emotional connection and nurturing when you were growing up; you may also have experienced relationships that were intrusive or abusive as a child. My significant other says they feel like they have a hard time pleasing me.


I expected this to be like most of the other marriage books, all yerkpvich communication and “love languages”. The information in this book opened me up to a whole, new level of understanding about myself, people, and relationships.

My parents would describe me as a good kid who never caused problems.

And so with that little bit of possible knowledge about me I dove into the book. I would describe myself as independent and self-reliant. For me that was refreshing to not have examples that stuck men and women in roles traditionally thought of but to show that man or woman is prone to any of the love styles. I think people having troubles in their marriage will appreciate this read, but for me, it just didn’t work.

I took the little “love style” quiz from the author’s website. Then it got into nitty gritty marriage howw.

Open Preview See a Problem? I feel like different personality types were talked about as a “damaged love type” in this book.

People sometimes describe me as intimidating. When I Spoke in Tongues.